Well today Berhanu and I drove up to LA and met with Karen for his pre-op appointment. Everything went well.
The BIG day has arrived!!!!
Well today Berhanu and I drove up to LA and met with Karen for his pre-op appointment. Everything went well.
And so the story unfolds......?
Hi Jim,
thanks for your kind words. At the moment, I'm in the amsterdam
airport, heading to Ethiopia.
Yeah, I really like Berhanu as well.
Here's what my volunteer, Chloe, wrote about Berhanu:
While most 8 year olds spend their day in a 2nd grade classroom,
Berhanu Haptu spends his day helping his elderly grandmother with her
daily chores and caring for his 7 year old sister. When asks what he
wants to e when he grows up, Berhanu ponders, , looking towards the
sky, before slowly answering "stoo-dint." The closest school is 6
kilometers, away, and with Berhanu's poor health, the daily roundtrip
commute of 12 kms makes school impossible for Berhanu.
Both of Berhanu's parents died before he was old enough to remember,
and his 24 year old uncle has assumed the multiple roles of mother,
father, and legal guardian. His uncle, Sisai, is a 10th grade high
school student as well as a farmer and primary caregiver for his
nephew, niece, and mother. The family earns their living by leasing
their small plot of land and reaping a quarter of the farmer's yearly
harvest. Sisay is not able to quantify their yearly income monetarily,
but can only tell me that a good harvest will yield them 6 quintile
(600 kgs) of dura, a type of wheat.
Berhanu is soft and gentle and sidles up to me as his uncle speaks,
eager to examine my fingers, separating them one by one. Berhanu's own
hand remains hidden under the worn cuff of his sweatshirt, a deformed
claw with 3 fingers. It is, as he believes, that by hiding it he has
convinced himself that it is not there. I roll up his sleeve to play
with his hand the same way he plays with mine, but he is quick to
catch me before I complete the first roll of fabric. He looks up with
a sheepish smile. It is interesting to me that Berhanu is so much more
self-conscious about his congenital deformities of his hand than the
exaggerated sickle curve of his spine, but perhaps, in his 8 year old
way, he is choosing his battles. I want to tell him that both battles
can be fought, But I am afraid the ruin the silence of our exchange.
Berhanu's dream is to 1 day be a student. Mine is that he may one day
let me play with his hand the same way he plays with mine.
I am about to send 10 patients to Ghana for spine surgery. If you know
anyone interested in help to fund this (about $12K a kid), let me
know.
My mom lives in Laguna Niguel, and I'm happy to meet you folks next
time I'm on the west coast, and talk about future projects.
Best wishes and thanks,
Rick